Is our whole parenting ethos based on 4 Bible verses?

 The Bible for parents: 

"And God blessed them. And God said to them, 'Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it, and have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over every living thing that moves on the earth.'” Genesis 1:28

"Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him." Proverbs 13:24 

"Train up a child in the way he should go, even when he is old he will not depart from it." Proverbs 22:6

(There are some additional discipline and rod verses from Proverbs.)

"Spare the rod, spoil the child" (non-canonical verse) 

"Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right." Ephesians 6:1

What's missing, and does what's missing apply to parenting? 

Is there a reason that the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus is skipped over in this "Bible"? 

Does our conventional interpretation of these 4 verses support, challenge, or ignore the life and ministry of Jesus? 

Is a parenting ethos still Christian if its supporting Bible verses are not interpreted in light of Christ? 

Why is our parenting ethos based on only 4 verses? 











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